Lately, i wonder why i becomes so emo, easily distracted by others, influenced by others.
i used to feel empty, having nothing to look forward to and don't know where am i heading
One of my buddy, she hit me by telling some words.. i found her statement could ease my pain, gaining my strength back.
She said:-
you know what?
at times like this, your light bulb is going to lit up pretty soon
meaning you will find your way
so don't worry about the uncomfortable stage that you are in now, solution is near
don't be afraid to walk through dark times like this
because when you reach the end of the tunnel, you will see light
Hugs!
jo, no matter how bad situation you are in, you know you will get out of it
Yeah!you are superwoman remember ??
one who take charge of so many tasks at work
what else can be a permanent problem to you
superwoman also have to make mistake and learn
no one learn without making mistake
trust yourself, trust that you are well taken care of by life
never live to please others...
you are smart, so you get it now that you cannot please others blindly and never compromise your standards
accept the fact that you made a bad judgment, pat yourself on the shoulder and carry on life knowing that you have learnt something.
it is important not to beat yourself up when you realise that you have made a bad judgment
yep
you are so hard on yourself
you are always so nice to others but so hard on yourself
be kind to yourself
it is ok to fear
having courage is not zero fear
courage is having the fear but still do it anyway
in some ways
you can be so nice to others but you can be THAT hard on yourself
that's one of the example
no jo
you are a complete person
nothing else to improve
you are born as a complete person
how can you now need so many improvement
that's part of learning
there is nothing about you that i would want you to change
your friend is trying to change you
why don't you ask your friend how come he/she sees flaws in you
what he/she sees is his/her own flaws
not yours
so don't make yourself busy in changing yourself
because it is not your business to start with
YOU ARE ALREADY THE BEST PERSON
i am not refering as the best person on earth
you are the PERFECT jo
don't hang out with people who constantly say things to make you feel inferior
people do that to make themselves look superior
that doesn't mean there is actually ANYTHING wrong with you
that's why
that's what they want
are you going to live your life letting them to make you feel inferior
you know how to stand up to face bullies
for other
yet you don't stand up for yourself
you allow them to make you feel inferior
when there is NOTHING that need to change about you
you make yourself so busy for nothing
because deep down inside, you know that the goal is just to make you feel inferior and that there is nothing wrong with you
NO you didn't cause that to happen
you are just not aware how people can manipulate you
into thinking that you are the problem
you are not the problem
their mindset is their problem
so stop being kay po and make yourself so busy for their business
then start treating yourself nice and kind
don't be so hard on yourself
you also treat yourself that bad
others will see the opportunity
start by being kind to yourself
it is not call "cold blood", it is "minding your own business"
people like to gain attention
they like having a lot of people watching them
therefore they start labeling others who don't as cold blooded
you are not cold blooded
well, having attention is the greatest thing ppl love to do n to have mah
you think you are what ? snake?
for the mediocre
are you a mediocre?
if you think you are mediocre
then you will live your life like one
and you will see the result of being a mediocre
nothing great
is that your choice
did your parents create you to be a mediocre
they don't
when they decided to have a baby, they want the best for you
and yet you choose to be a mediocre
if you choose to be an average person, you will get average pay, average life, average style, average friends, average everything average
learning is a process how we go through life
and to learn we have to make mistake
to make mistake we have to have courage
and supportive friends can help support you
obstacles are life
happiness is not a destination
it is the journey
always choose to be happy no matter what situation you are in
don't wait until special day or special thing to happen then only you be happy
happy is a state of emotion
it doesn't cost anything
in fact you can choose to be happy right now
be happy that you found out he is like that before it cost you a house or a mountain to know
be happy that you went through the matter safely
bruise and cuts are the price for the lesson
so it is expensive to make mistake
it is important that you get the lesson
without having to go through with it again
and i hope you will remember that
never to let what others said get into you
because they are talking about themselves
so don't kay po
and take it as your own problem
it is never your business to start with
so make sure you get the lesson now
human do have many faces
especially those who don't live fulfilling life
thing like this happen for a reason.... your guardian angel is trying to tell you he is not the one
so thank your guardian angel for letting your beautiful eyes open big big
people like that do not worth your tears and anger... when it is time, let it go
at least that is like 2 years, not 20 years
count yourself lucky to see the picture early
somehow somewhere, something is watching over you
and not to let you live your life in the unknown
trick you once, shame on him, trick you twice, shame on you
it is time that he leave
make room for new people
*wink*
don't compromise your standard
he is not meeting your standard
it is ok to be sad
when time is right, you will let go
once you compromise your standard, you are compromising everything that matter to you
it doesn't matter that what matter to you does not matter to anyone else
it is your own life you are living"
